if all you want is the draws, cash, a nice car, a nice crib, a decent credit line, status, confidence, a cute face, game, and a nice physique will open many doors.
if you are actually looking for a relationship, you actually have to see her as a person and get to know her. all that other stuff helps too (don't get me wrong), but really knowing who you are is the most important.
it's rare that you find someone that wants to grow with you. women typically want more of a finished product than a project.
ultimately, if you focus on developing yourself, knowing yourself, building yourself up mentally, psychologically, spiritually, you'll attract the right kind of women as opposed to attracting clout chasers and succubi that just want a financier.
and a tinder profile might not be a bad idea either.