Handling with the ex-boyfriend of my girlfriend

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So the ex boyfriend of my girlfriend keeps calling her with different numbers and anonymous. He has also created multiple instagram accounts to stalk her. He wants to have a chat with her but she doesn't want to do anything with him. So as her boyfriend I stepped up as a man should (in my opinion). Since he keeps disturbing my girlfriend I kinda want to do something back. I have his (Dutch) phone number. Any ideas on what I can do, I was thinking of hiring a SMS bombing service. This is my first thread on here, havent been on this site for almost 3 years. If I said anything bad or wrong I would like to hear it. Also trying to buy premium but waiting for the PP exch ticket to get picked up.

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I understand that you want to protect your girlfriend from her ex-boyfriend's unwanted attention, but I strongly advise against retaliating or engaging in any form of revenge. Such actions could escalate the situation and potentially lead to legal consequences for you. It's important to handle the situation in a calm and rational manner, and not to resort to harmful or illegal actions.
 
I would recommend speaking with your girlfriend and encouraging her to take legal action if the harassment continues. She can speak with a lawyer or contact the police to report the behavior and obtain a restraining order if necessary. Additionally, she can take steps to increase her privacy and security, such as changing her phone number, blocking the ex-boyfriend's accounts, and adjusting her social media settings.
 
It's important to prioritize safety and well-being in situations like this, and seeking professional help and support can be beneficial. If you or your girlfriend are feeling overwhelmed or distressed, consider reaching out to a mental health professional or a support group for assistance.

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just ignore

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KnightChampion makes a good point, you taking matters into your own hands can only make the situation worse.

You should do everything that you can to support your girlfriend, but encourage her to call police so that the professionals can deal with the ex-boyfriend.

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wtf idk why everyone is saying u shouldn't take matters into own hands if he is harassing her punish him.

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beat him up good i bet he wont bother your girlfriend anymore

 

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So the ex boyfriend of my girlfriend keeps calling her with different numbers and anonymous. He has also created multiple instagram accounts to stalk her. He wants to have a chat with her but she doesn't want to do anything with him. So as her boyfriend I stepped up as a man should (in my opinion). Since he keeps disturbing my girlfriend I kinda want to do something back. I have his (Dutch) phone number. Any ideas on what I can do, I was thinking of hiring a SMS bombing service. This is my first thread on here, havent been on this site for almost 3 years. If I said anything bad or wrong I would like to hear it. Also trying to buy premium but waiting for the PP exch ticket to get picked up.

Honestly, I would've fucked him up already, but that's me. I would send him a photo of myself in her bed to him. I did that once and all that BS stopped immediately.

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It doesn't seem from your post that you asked her what she wants you to do.  She's a grown-aSS woman.  She doesn't need you to decide things for her.