Alright round 2. go to the local grocery store, preferably the discount ones. Look for a lady in the age range of about 30-55 if they're still single at that age they're more likely to be accepting of some fetish stuff. If they have kids you only really have one of two options 1. being avoiding that shit like the plague 2. if you really wanna climb into the passenger seat of juice box soaked whole wheat goldfish smelling Dodge Caravan you have to look at their faces first. if they have the "when this kid turns 18 I'm putting an 18 clip in my mouth" look on their face then your in the money.