Gunna have to go with what a lot of people are saying.
I personally believe if you focus on yourself, "The one" will eventually come.
I spent years trying to find women, learning pickup lines - dating techniques, the works. But when I finally stopped chasing relationships that would fair after 2-3 months and started working on myself, the one just came to me. I hit the gym, started eating a bit better, started some hobbies. I didnt get like "Swol" hell I don't think my body changed much at all, but I had priorities. Through focusing on myself and making myself into a better person, I found the one simply by her approaching me. I sorta stumbled into the relationship and the rest is history.
Id say this is anecdotal but a couple of my friends have done the exact same thing and now they're married so idk.
TL:DR - Make sure you are your best self and focus on making you great, she'll eventually come to you.
